"Missie I want you to marry me. Now that you are separated from that Husband." My Indian friend named A. Said. (names are protected). I thought about it for a minute and then said "Alright!"
He goes "Really?" and I say "Really!". So the next thing you know he is seriously planning this.
"Missie Missie...Don't lie to me. I will do everything I can to come the USA. I have plenty of money, you know. Just tell me that this is true."
I try to change the mind of this man and offer myself to him as a GREAT FRIEND instead. "We can run all over Denver together! I will show you around. It will be so fun!" I realize that I am sort of lonely at this point. It would be great to be with a man who wants to be friends. However this is not what he wants. "If I come to Denver...you must date me, Missie." Now comes the control freak. He always ends up trying to demand me to date him. I believe in letting things happen naturally, but not him. Suddenly this Marriage idea is not so fun after all.
I tell him I am tired and that I must go to sleep. I wake up the next morning like, what was I thinking? We never ever met in person. How can he demand a marriage? Not a good idea.
Well I broke the news to him gently and now he is furious! I hate hurting my online friends.
Ah Well........I told him it was a crazy idea and that I will not be able to do it. He understood today. However I hate having conversations like this in the first place. In the meantime...
I wonder if I will ever get married again.
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