Most men respect the rules. I don't have a lot of problems with anyone or any man here. However this one guy acts like I walk around looking like this!
He tried to accompany me into the elevator while I was doing chores. I wondered if I might have to kick him in the balls in the elevator. Luckily I stared him down before he followed me in. I said "I am going to do this by myself." I gave him a warning look. He nodded in acknowledgement and luckily he backed off! But really! I shouldn't have to go through this in the first place.
He is a married man and he has many children. They are living with him in the shelter! One day he offered to tell us where someplace was and after that he tried to establish a "deep" bond. We talked and joked around and then I found out....his wife lives with them too. I said " Wait you are married? I don't want to befriend a married man. I don't need no drama here." He tried to explain how he is not happy with her and he is looking to move on with someone else. EEEK! I cut off all friendly ties with him and told him not to talk to me anymore. He seemed to agree at first. Then he started hitting on me again after a few days. I figured it was dead air. He knows where I stand. But then it became more obvious to myself and to others that he is actually staring at me. I didn't like how he suddenly became an issue. But I figured he would stop after a while. Guess what. He did stop. So I relaxed. But then he started up again. It was rather suddenly too.
Tonight I was a "Chore Leader" and he was one of the people doing his chores. He tried to hit on me while I was the supervisor. I told him...."cut it out. Go do your chores. I am not dealing with men right now in any way, shape or form." He tried to yap about how I should be on alert of other guys who will try to hit on me and that he is a friend warning me about other men's motives. This dude is making me feel like I need to wear a Barb Wire Jacket around him! I don't understand the audacity of this man. To make it worse is that he is risking himself to be kicked out, along with his entire family. If I report him (it will only take 5 minutes and one time) he will be gone! Stupid man. I am sure that he will start to feel a sense of fear when I reveal how crazy I can be.
The last straw? He decided to knock on my door at 11pm at night! I opened the door expecting it was night staff and there he was standing there, waiting to tell me a message. I looked at him disgusted and slammed the door in his face. The next morning I received a letter under my door. It was from him. He said "please call this number because last night my wife and I had a fight. I had to tell her that you and I were only friends and now she thinks we are having an affair. I have to talk to you. Please call!"
I told a male friend who also lives here and he said "Report it." So I told my Case Manager and showed him the letter. I told him to give him a strict warning. I told him to say "He is too look down when passes me in the hallway and never, ever, say a word to me again!" But the next day....strangely enough THE MAN WAS MISSING! He is not living here anymore. I guess he got kicked out after all. Well I don't care. I figure ...If the staff feels like he had to leave then so be it. I told him to leave me alone before and he didn't listen. Now look what happened!
I hate it when weird men decide to take it upon themselves to act that way with me. Well now he is GONE and my life feels better. His wife is still here with her children. Its just him missing from the would be scene of the crime. I warned the staff that I will kick him in the B8alls if he ever shows up at my doorstep late at night again.
UPDATE: A friend who lives here (another male) told me to REPORT HIM. I did. Now he is GONE! Ahhhh.....Back to living life again in peace.
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